I always thought I was pretty conservative with my porn consumption, and masturbation. I would usually only allow myself to do so every other day. I realize now that this is a small sign of addiction. If you have to put regulations on its consumption then perhaps.. just maybe there's an issue there. The issue especially became apparent when I starting using Virtual Reality goggles. I remember having a post-ejaculation regretful thought of “What the fuck am I doing home alone in this bed on a friday night, instead of being out with friends or putting myself out there to find a girl to connect with.”
As said in the video, I was fortunate enough to have had a housemate about to embark on a 30-day No-Porn challenge, and luckily he asked me if I wanted to join in that quest. There was absolutely no hassitation, I was in as soon as he mentioned it.
Something amazing started to shift in me, even within the first 2 weeks. I had found a new connection to my body. When I was in the throws of passion with a lover, I was starting to FEEL so much. There was an energy that was running through me, as well as an openness to the energy of my partner. I was feeling more and more present during sex, and I found myelf not imagining porn scenes in my mind. This was HUGE, and I knew it would only keep getting better from there.
In addition, because I had been getting into "naughtier and naughtier" porn, I now felt a push to turn my fantasies into reality. I had a new drive to expand the way I was having sex. I bought new toys, swings, ropes, and anything that could ADD excitement to the bedroom. It also encouraged me to turn, now one of my favorite configuration, a two-goddess threesome, into reality. Yes, I may have had threesomes before I stopped porn, but it definitely made me more driven to invite it into my life as more of a consistent part of it. Just to give you inspiration and to put it into perspective, I’ve probably around 40 two-goddess threemsome.
Stopping porn also made me go out and want to create connections with REAL LIFE HUMANS. I even joined a Salsa Dancing course! Life became brighter and brighter everyday.
I’m now around 6 years Porn sober!
TL:DR
Stopping porn was easier when I didn't feel I was the only one doing it.
I had more energy and drive to want to meet people and connect with them in the REAL.
My bedroom skills and playfulness increased
I was turning the visual fantasies that I would have masturbated to in REALITY
Life became brighter with each passing day!